Not so Hot – Ireland

One of my favourite 1973 hits was Thin Lizzy’s Whiskey in the Jar-O – truly a formative single leading to lots of sore necks from the banging of the head. So in 2005, when we visited Killarney, in the Cork and Kerry mountains, it put me straight back to ’73. One of the best adventures was the Gap of Dunloe tour set near Killarney National Park. We hired 3 horses and 2 places in a horse-drawn carriage and we swapped around so everyone got a turn. Jo and Steph took to it like ducks to water, so they spent almost all the time on horseback, while Chris and Brian swapped places. I mostly sat in the carriage or walked – I just couldn’t get the rhythm right atop a horse. The views were stunning, and we had a delicious lunch at a wonderful eatery, then ended with a speedboat ride for the last leg. Defo got our money's worth.

Another great day out included a trip to Blarney Castle, and we queued up for ages to walk past the famous stone, embedded in the castle’s parapet. To kiss it you must lie on your back (they provide a cushion), hanging on to two iron rods, and stretch backwards (over a two-foot gap with a deadly, 2-storey drop) to press your lips to the greasy stone millions have kissed before you. A health and safety nightmare I imagine had no choice but to close during the COVID years. Scary as it sounds, there was a guy hanging firmly to your arm and waist, ensuring your safety. Still a tad hairy. Why take that risk? Legend has it whoever does so will get the gift of the gab – or more colloquially, gain the ability to talk the hind leg off a donkey.

Not so Hot - Scotland

My first two trips to our northern neighbour ended abruptly. My dad’s job meant his company regularly paid for the petrol up there and a room in a hotel, so he only had to pay for an extra room. But they figured it was cheaper to buy a 7-berth tent (and all the necessary gear?) than pay for two rooms, and we went to a campsite in Ayr. Unfortunately, swimming in the chilly Easter sea was not the best of ideas and we had to come home early because I caught pneumonia.
The second time we went up in a camper van, I think it was a second attempt at Ayr?), but after a couple of days Dad’s severe stomach pain resulted in a mad dash across to Edinburgh Royal Infirmary, where he

was diagnosed with a hiatus hernia. So we spent several days camped out in the car park (with special access to the hospital loos etc) while he recovered enough to drive us home – Mum couldn’t drive back then.
A third trip en famile, saw us stopping in a campsite in Northumberland before hugging the east coast up to Aberdeen, across to Inverness and then down the side of Loch Ness to Fort William, no doubt marvelling at the sight of Ben Nevis. But my folks weren’t into mountains so we did no more than set foot on the bottom of it, just to say we’d been there.

After Greek Island trips from 1985-7, Bri and I didn’t manage a holiday in ’88, because Chris’s birth in July meant all bets were cancelled as we adjusted to life with a newborn, and the following year we only managed 5 days in Yorkshire, leaving the day after his 1st birthday. So we made up for it the next year with 2 weeks in France in May, then the first of our autumn breaks, which we managed for the next two Octobers before being constrained by school holidays. It took till 2000 to repeat this, then every October half term from 2002 to 2008 saw us in France for at least 4 days – I’d started teaching and desperately needed that break after the gruelling Autumn terms.

So in September 1990, we took 2-year-old Chris and 10-month-old Jo to a lovely log-built chalet in the woods near Dunoon – for three years till the kids started school. We’d discovered the town played host to the U.S. Navy's Polaris missile program, which aimed to provide a nuclear deterrent against the Soviet Union during the Cold War. Created in 1961, it was active until 1992, and I’m sure we would have visited it, although I have no memories of the place.

Edinburgh Fringe

I first visited this in 2007, sharing the driving with Jo (a remarkable feat considering she hadn’t yet passed her test), and we stopped off at the Old Smithy at Gretna Green, which also features in a couple of Treasure Hunts (Lost in Time and Captive). We stayed in the Travel Lodge a short walk from Princes Street, and spent many happy hours watching the street performers execute impossible feats. Because it was so early in August, the Comedy Fringe hadn’t yet started and we caught the back end of the Jazz Fringe, seeing a number of great musical performances.

The following year saw us back again, this time with Chris and Steph, and we stopped the night at a hotel in Carlisle, which Steph found due to her passion for all things supernatural. It was supposed to be haunted, in particular one bedroom, a little exploration brought us to the room. I can’t remember which one of us got up the nerve to open the door, nor who was more surprised, us or the poor guy lying in the bed. Oops. That trip saw us revisiting Gretna and checking out the café where JK supposedly wrote a lot of Harry Potter and we also went on a ghost tour, where I got picked on to demonstrate something dark. An awful lot of scenes the second Colour of Light book, Chrysalis are based on this trip, including the phenomenal Celtic Drummer Band Clanadonia, who also turn up in a bunch of the Hengist books, and are key to some major plot points in the first book, Archer.

In 2010, Steph’s A-level drama class wrote a short play called Twelve, and their enterprising drama teachers took it to the Edinburgh festival for a short run. So we had to drive up and watch it – another couple of chapters in Chrysalis. Ten years after that first visit, Steph was performing again, and Bri and I flew up to watch the production of HMS Edinburgh: Love Over Gold – a wartime tale that saw her perfecting a very credible Polish accent. Here’s the blurb: Caught in the terrifying crush between the Nazi and Red armies, two Polish lovers are overshadowed by the ambitions of a ruthless Russian officer, who haunts their lives.
We dashed straight to the venue, getting lost because the phone satnav was something I’d not used before, arriving with minutes to spare to find a performance had already started. Grabbing drinks, we tried to

sit unobtrusively and watch what turned out to be virtually a one-man show, waiting for Steph to appear. When it finished, we realised there was a different venue upstairs, and sat at the back for the last 20 minutes. Thankfully, we had time to watch the following day’s show before hustling to the airport. I just found the souvenir flyer I kept and was mortified to find it clearly states, “upstairs at the Silk Nightclub.” And has a map on the back. I can only imagine we didn’t have this with us on the day!

Not so Hot - Wales

Believed by its residents to be God’s Own Country, Wales has well and truly captured my heart over the years, whether conquering Cader Idris for the first time with my beloved Aunty Lynne, exploring the fabulous Dolgoch waterfalls or the quirky Italian village at Portmeirion. But when Bri and Sasha started visiting my Uncle Alan’s caravan near Corris, it took on a whole new meaning, as they fell every bit in love with the place as I did. Initially, our walks centred around the same places Lynne showed me, and Sasha scampered up Cader like a mountain goat. We tried not to worry as she went right up to the edge of the various precipices. Barmouth was a solid favourite and I loved the Last Inn, with its indoor water feature and myriad fairy lights.

South Wales

My first experience was in the early eighties, when a few hours down to Ross-On-Wye got us to Barry Island, where a rather strict landlady of a B&B reluctantly allowed us to share a double room in the days when lack of a wedding ring still mattered. She eventually warmed to us after the 3rd trip. It was a great base for exploring places with cute names like the Mumbles and Ton-y-Pandy. I remember Cardiff's huge cathedral, with a surprisingly modern interior.

Mid Wales

We loved the van so much that when Alan was thinking of giving it up, we paid the ground rent for several years before buying it off him in 2020. We didn’t manage to get down until June that year, because a week after it opened in March, the government in their anything-but-wisdom closed the borders. Literally on the day we planned to travel down there. Since then, we spend 3 or 4 days every other week from March till it closes in November (except school holidays, when we avoid the dozens of kids playing Lord-of-the-flies).
Bri got a walking app, and through it we discovered several more walks, including one around the nearest town, Machynlleth, and what we call the “French walk” near Castel-Y-Bere, which includes an avenue of tall evergreens similar to many we’ve seen in the French countryside. This walk has so many interesting sights it played a massive part in one of the Dungeons and Dragons scenarios in the last Time Doctors book, Lost in Time.
But our favourite has to be Darowen, a gorgeous village nestled amid several tall hills, with a tortuous narrow road sporting few passing places and a multitude of heart-in-mouth moments at each blind hilltop. But the enchanting countryside and the views across the top are so worth it. Even better when the farm shop has a marrow in it! Recently, we discovered that the nearest village, Corris, has more to it than the miniature Italian Village (just past the Slater’s Arms) and an abandoned mine with 2 old drill shafts which look like a heart from a distance. We’ve extended our walk to include some woods at the start and a truly unexpected cluster of holiday chalets at the end. Even after a full decade of van visits, we’re finding new places to explore.

North Wales

When the kids were very young, we stayed in a hotel in Conwy, and I have vivid memories of walking around the castle walls which surround the old town. Portmeirion is definitely worth a day trip, and I’d recommend lunch in the nearby Castell Deudraeth – steeped in history. As is Harlech Castle, around ten miles south, but you’d need a separate trip to do either of them justice. Anglesey Island, which features in some of the Arthurian Holy Grail legends, is somewhere which always attracted me, and although we drove along the A55 to Holyhead en-route to Ireland, we never stopped to explore. It gets a brief mention in the third Colour of Light series, Captive – a complex treasure hunt, and I’d always intended to trek up there as part of my research, but the Covid-based travel restrictions in 2020 made this virtually impossible. In the end, I glossed over this part of the journey and stuck to places I knew well – trust me, I had more than enough of those to choose from.

Not so Hot - Across the Pond

New York

For Brian's 50th, I organised a trip to New York which included seeing his favourite opera, La Boheme, at the Metropolitan Opera house - on November the 10th, 2000, which just happened to be the 16th anniversary of our very first date - watching death of a salesman at the Belgrade theatre Coventry. By this time, Moonstruck, released in 1987, Was firmly in my top three all time favourite movies. When I showed it to him, he loved the wonderful characters, stellar writing, and fabulous supporting cast including the guy who played Marty Crane, Frasier’s dad (more about him later). The chemistry between Cher and Nick Cage’s characters resonated, as did the music, opening with Tony Bennett's That's Amore, and featuring excerpts from la Boheme all the way through.

I went to great lengths to recreate some of the scenes, including getting my hair straightened into a fabulous up-do and buying a dress which should have cost £180 - normally what I would spend on clothes in six months. I managed to get it for £60, which didn't hurt at all. So the scene was set for us to recreate the meet cute by the fountain outside the met, and an obliging passerby took the above iconic photo. One of my strongest memories (apart from £15 for a tiny glass of bubbly), was walking out into the foyer after dropping off my coat. Every single woman in the place was wearing black, navy or some other dark colour, and there was me in this bright, salmon pink dress with a flamenco ruffle (as modelled by Darcy Bussell in the Debenhams catalogue). I could hear a susurration of whispers around me Exclaiming at such bravado, and when I spoke, it led to speculation that I must be somebody, to have such an accent.

We'd already seen La Boheme in the UK, and I remember my eyes filling with tears at the scene in the Christmas market when a host of children fulfilled the stage. It was without doubt the most magnificent Opera House we'd ever been to, and the only slight niggle was that our seats were separated by a considerable gap. Probably the only reason I managed to bag the seats in the first place.

The following night we dined at La Grande Ticino, the restaurant used in several scenes, frequently with John mahoney's character having a glass of wine poured over him. It was the very first time I'd ever had oysters - I won't say tasted, because with the whole slipping them down the back of the neck idea you didn't actually get to taste anything but the garlic and lemon in which they were stewed. Every wall in the restaurant proudly displayed photos of the members of the cast, and in a nice touch, when I got chatting to a lady in the loos, she revealed that one of the gentlemen in her party (on the table next to us), was actually the professor on whom John's character was based. Fun!

The whirlwind tour included the open-topped Apple bus which took us to various sites, including where Mother Teresa worked, And a gawp at the building where John Lennon was shot. Very tasteful. We also did the obligatory jaunt out to Ellis Island and climbed the first few stages of lady liberty, bought trinkets for the girls in Macy's, and as you can see from this picture, we got in just before the 9-11 destruction of the twin towers. It would definitely have been a different visit if we'd gone the following year. We also spent time in Central Park, snapping this iconic picture of the outdoor ice skating rink. On the last day before coming home, we visited the national history museum, and it was great fun seeing it come alive six years later in Night at the Museum.